Frequently Asked Questions
HOW MUCH TIME DO I NEED?
How ever much time you have in order to be supported exactly where you are at. It is completely sovereignly self-paced. It encompasses a lifetime of evoulution in & of itself, and so She innately holds space for all of yours too. You don’t need hours. Sometimes you may only have minutes to allow this transmission to pour into you, to give back in a way that you pour into the people in your life. I understand its not always possible to always create space for bleeding, but it is my belief that any small amount of space is better than no space.
WHAT DO I RECEIVE?
You receive support–over time & space–of deepening into more trust, intuition, play, belief, slowness, gentleness and power within. You receive the Red Tent–the holding–that you never got when you had your first period. Or perhaps you are about to bleed for the first time & you are gifting yourself the Red Tent.
WHAT IS THE RED TENT IN THE CONTEXT OF THIS OFFERING?
In the context of In Her Blood, The Red Tent is the space that women gather to bleed, to shed & let go together. To laugh together. To cry together. To weave the new together. To vision. To be in circle together.
& I believe when Women gather, magic happens. This transmission connects you to this circle of women who hold this offering, who were a part of the lifetime of evolution that it holds, & without them this offering wouldn’t be here.
In being in this space you are supporting yourself to be seen, heard & held in your most tender time of month. Learn to more lovingly see, feel, hold yourself & in turn.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
All Women upon this Earth who bleed, who have ever bled & will ever bleed. When we gift ourselves this space–even if our bleeding years are long gone–we realise how essential it is to be in circle. In menopause, we visit our pre-menstrual self. Eldership is the centre of this space of menopause, with humans & whales being the only mammals naturally reaching menopause (in the wild), it is not so far-out to see the essential return of proper Eldership to our communities.
WHAT IF I AM ON BIRTH CONTROL PILLS OR UNDERGOING HRT?
You are still welcome if you are currently on birth control or doing HRT. You can still gift this to yourself & it will have a flow on effect in some way or another, whether you leave them behind or not.
WHAT DO YOU RECOMMEND FOR MY DAUGHTER WHO IS APPROACHING THIS SACRED TIME OF THE FIRST BLEED?
It's wonderful that you're considering this membership space for your daughter. What I always recommend in the lead up to this time is to first purchase & receive the transmission for yourself first, & there will be an innate flow on to your daughter.
This allows you to anchor into deeper states of safety and security within yourself, which is a powerful way to lead your daughter through her own coming-of-age journey.
& perhaps it is something you can then gift your daughter when she reaches her first bleed, creating your own ceremony space for her around it which will positively impact her self-perception for years to come & set a strong foundation for her life.
In the meantime, as you navigate your own labyrinth, you'll naturally create a bridge of connection with your daughter. Your authenticity and willingness to share your own experiences will be invaluable to her as she steps through the doorway of her first initiation.
CAN MY TEEN DAUGHTER & I SHARE A MEMBERSHIP?
I always recommend that if your daughter truly wants to participate that she have her own membership & login, & that she do it off her own impulse. This is because this is the time where she is becoming her own woman, differentiating away from her Mother & finding her own essence as she goes through this vulnerable time of transformation. Having her very own login is in support to this. The membership is accessible for her to be able to put her pocket money toward each month at only $11 AUD per month. The impact & effects will be much more powerful coming from her.
If she is not ready, continue to dip into the membership & receive the support of this healing transmission yourself and seperate the need for her to join you here & do it for yourself. No doubt you are also approaching your next right of passage yourself, & I touch on this more in a question below.
The direct transmission from mother to daughter is a beautiful and powerful aspect of this process. Ideally, your daughter will have been surrounded by the in-person love and support of the women in your village and family. This creates a strong foundation for her as she comes into her own power.
Remember, it's okay to not have all the answers. Your daughter will benefit from seeing you navigate your own changes with honesty and vulnerability. You can also share age-appropriate resources with her and look for workshops or space holding for mothers and daughters.
I hope this guidance is helpful. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have any further questions.
THERE IS SO MUCH CONTENT & MAGIC TO GET THROUGH, HOW DO YOU RECOMMEND I NAVIGATE THE SPACE?
I talk you through this on the inside through the introductory & housekeeping content. Remember, there's no pressure to complete any specific content. The program is designed to provide a safe and private space for self-study and learning. The idea is that you will come to the space each month, leaning in & out as you are ready. The teachings, prayers, transmissions, meditations & activations held here are life-companions.
The first few months of entering into the membership, please ease in slowly & gently. The first month you may simply just listen to the 2 opening audios & let that simmer as you feel the positive impact of having a space to come like this at this time, just for you & you alone – especially if you are a mama, have a full-time job, & multiple aspects of life to juggle & manage.
HOW CAN THIS MEMBERSHIP SPACE APPLY TO ME IF I AM PERI OR POST MENOPAUSAL?
If you are traversing this next right of passage, this space can be seen as a retrieval space of your voice, your wisdoms and your own unique medicines of the world. Menopause is a powerful time where we are called to access our pre-teen / 14 year old self. The transmission this offering contains is to be seen as an art exhibition experience where you will receive your own personal & ancestral healing each & every time you watch the short film & listen to the poetry journey. It is a living space that will support this awakening of your younger self & all that she loves to do & all that she wants to be. To anchor her in & move forward with confidence in what you have to share with your voice as you enter your years of wisdom. We need you here more than anything!
The only section which may fall away as your bleed / cycle changes & slows upon this right of passage is the Bleed Tracking section. Still, some of the transmissions here you may still enjoy receiving, but their relevance may fall away the deeper into menopause you become. The 3 other sections will remain relevant & supportive through this journey. & of course if you no longer feel as if it is serving you as you come out the other side, the permission is there to completely lean out. There are no lock-ins within this membership.
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